Don't rush dating - Don’t rush relationships. Period. | Ellie


"If you meet someone and automatically think they are 'the one,' you risk idealizing them and minimizing differences," relationship coach and therapist Anita Chlipala tells Bustle. Instead, let it unfold. See where it takes you. You can't possibly know someone until at least a year or two in. "Also, infatuation lasts, on average, about 18 months," she says, "so it’s normal to think your partner is awesome, especially in the beginning."

When you are single it can seem like everyone around you is in a relationship and you can get to thinking 'why me?' when all of your friends find a partner..


Don't rush dating

Don't rush dating